Category: Proverbs

  • Please Don’t Make Me Move : Comfort and Spiritual Growth

    Jasper, A maremma - border collie cross. A black, white and tan dog with big brown eyes rests his head on the arm of a floral loveseat and looks up at the camera.

    This is Jasper, a border collie/maremma cross. He lived with us for several years until I moved to the city. Now he and his “sister,” Misty, live with dear friends of ours. Jasper is very comfortably snuggled on the loveseat, and his big brown eyes are pleading, “Come on, boss, I just got comfortable. Please don’t make me get off the furniture.”

    I think there is a little Jasper in all of us. We get settled into a comfortable pattern of life, and we don’t want things to change. We are content to just slide through life in our little comfort zones.

    There are two problems with that. Firstly, life comes with change. Change is inevitable. The rate and amount of change can vary, but change happens whether we want it or not.

    Secondly, we don’t grow during those times we stay hunkered down in our comfortable bubbles. Most of our learning and emotional and spiritual growth comes during times of change, often in crisis.

    We get comfortable in our church life and spiritual walk, and suddenly something happens. Like Jasper, we look up at God and signal our reluctance.

    Fortunately, God cares more about our spiritual growth and holiness than our temporary comfort and happiness. We were created to be conformed to the image of Jesus, and one way or another, God will bring His plans to fruition.

    Sometimes the change comes as a simple, gentle nudge. Other times He moves in more drastic and dramatic ways. Whatever it takes, God will prune His people and shape them.

    “ I am the true vine, and my Father is the vinedresser. Every branch in me that does not bear fruit he takes away, and every branch that does bear fruit he prunes, that it may bear more fruit. Already you are clean because of the word that I have spoken to you. Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me. I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing. If anyone does not abide in me, he is thrown away like a branch and withers; and the branches are gathered, thrown into the fire, and burned. If you abide in me, and my words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. By this my Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit and so prove to be my disciples. As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love. If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love. These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full. John 15:1-11 ESV

    Pruning is not painless, but the result is worthwhile.

    My son, do not despise the Lord’s discipline or be weary of his reproof,

    for the Lord reproves him whom he loves, as a father the son in whom he delights. Proverbs 3:11-12 ESV

    When the Lord moves us out of our comfort zones, He does so for a purpose. Let us be thankful that He cares enough to make us move. 

    Be blessed

    Kevin

    SUMMARY

    Like Jasper curled up on the loveseat, we often resist when God calls us out of our comfort zones. Let us be thankful that He cares more about our growth than our comfort.

    TAKEAWAY

    Change is inevitable. The rate and amount may vary, but change happens whether we want it or not.

    We don’t grow while we stay hunkered down in our comfortable bubbles. Most of our spiritual growth comes during times of change, often in crisis.

    God cares more about our holiness than our temporary comfort. He is the vinedresser of John 15, pruning us so we bear more fruit, and we can thank Him for caring enough to make us move.

    Be blessed

    Kevin

    YOU MIGHT ENJOY THESE POSTS

    Right belief or right living?

    Your local church needs YOU

    The gospel – the best news ever

    Bearing Spiritual Fruit

  • “Follow Your Heart? Not Biblical Advice 

    follow your heart or follow God - which path will you choose

    There’s a common piece of advice out there. It simply says “Follow Your Heart!”

    It sounds so simple, so warm and fuzzy. It sounds incredibly wise. After all, if you truly follow your heart, what could possibly go wrong? It’s the key to enjoying life.

    There’s only one problem with it. It’s absolutely ungodly advice.

    Here’s what the Bible teaches about the condition of the human heart.

    “The heart is more deceitful than all else and is desperately sick; who can know it? Jeremiah 17:9

    We are fallen beings with a sin nature. Left to our own devices, we will choose anything over the God who loves us. We’ll pick darkness over light more often than not. We’ll choose short-term pleasure over long-term growth. We will hurt others to get what we want.

    Following your heart is dangerous. It leads straight down the broad highway to hell and destruction. It promises things that can never be sustainably delivered.

    Our fleshly nature is flawed. We need to be guided by the Holy Spirit and the Word. The LORD is our Creator, Jesus our redeemer and the Holy Spirit our indwelling guide. God loves us to an unimaginable degree, and He knows far better what is good for us than we do.

    Even after we’ve been born again, we struggle against our flesh and the desires of our hearts. Paul put it this way,

    For I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate. Now if I do what I do not want, I agree with the law, that it is good. So now it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells within me. For I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh. For I have the desire to do what is right, but not the ability to carry it out. Romans 7:15-18

    Believers must trust the Spirit to guide us. We need the Word to teach us and the church to hold us accountable.

    In the path of righteousness is life, And in its pathway there is no death. Proverbs 12:28

     “Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the way is broad that leads to destruction, and there are many who enter through it. For the gate is narrow, and the way that leads to life is constricted, and there are few who find it. Matthew 7:13-14

    Don’t follow your heart. Let His path guide you. Allow Him to change your desires into the desires of His heart, He will never lead you astray.

    May the Lord guide your steps.

    Be blessed 

    Kevin 


    SUMMARY

    This devotional challenges the popular but unbiblical advice to “follow your heart,” contrasting it with Scripture’s warning that the human heart is deceitful and cannot be trusted as a guide. It calls believers instead to be led by the Holy Spirit and the Word, walking the narrow path of righteousness rather than the broad way that feels natural but leads to destruction.

    KEY POINTS

    The heart is deceitful (Jeremiah 17:9) and even believers wrestle with their flesh, as Paul describes in Romans 7 

    “Follow your heart” sounds wise but actually leads down the broad road to destruction (Matthew 7:13-14) 

    True guidance comes from the Holy Spirit, the Word, and the church, not from fleshly desire

    You might also like

    The gospel – The true miracle cure

    You might also like “How reliable is your heart?”

    Thoughts on right belief and right living