Category: John

  • Please Don’t Make Me Move : Comfort and Spiritual Growth

    Jasper, A maremma - border collie cross. A black, white and tan dog with big brown eyes rests his head on the arm of a floral loveseat and looks up at the camera.

    This is Jasper, a border collie/maremma cross. He lived with us for several years until I moved to the city. Now he and his “sister,” Misty, live with dear friends of ours. Jasper is very comfortably snuggled on the loveseat, and his big brown eyes are pleading, “Come on, boss, I just got comfortable. Please don’t make me get off the furniture.”

    I think there is a little Jasper in all of us. We get settled into a comfortable pattern of life, and we don’t want things to change. We are content to just slide through life in our little comfort zones.

    There are two problems with that. Firstly, life comes with change. Change is inevitable. The rate and amount of change can vary, but change happens whether we want it or not.

    Secondly, we don’t grow during those times we stay hunkered down in our comfortable bubbles. Most of our learning and emotional and spiritual growth comes during times of change, often in crisis.

    We get comfortable in our church life and spiritual walk, and suddenly something happens. Like Jasper, we look up at God and signal our reluctance.

    Fortunately, God cares more about our spiritual growth and holiness than our temporary comfort and happiness. We were created to be conformed to the image of Jesus, and one way or another, God will bring His plans to fruition.

    Sometimes the change comes as a simple, gentle nudge. Other times He moves in more drastic and dramatic ways. Whatever it takes, God will prune His people and shape them.

    “ I am the true vine, and my Father is the vinedresser. Every branch in me that does not bear fruit he takes away, and every branch that does bear fruit he prunes, that it may bear more fruit. Already you are clean because of the word that I have spoken to you. Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me. I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing. If anyone does not abide in me, he is thrown away like a branch and withers; and the branches are gathered, thrown into the fire, and burned. If you abide in me, and my words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. By this my Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit and so prove to be my disciples. As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love. If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love. These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full. John 15:1-11 ESV

    Pruning is not painless, but the result is worthwhile.

    My son, do not despise the Lord’s discipline or be weary of his reproof,

    for the Lord reproves him whom he loves, as a father the son in whom he delights. Proverbs 3:11-12 ESV

    When the Lord moves us out of our comfort zones, He does so for a purpose. Let us be thankful that He cares enough to make us move. 

    Be blessed

    Kevin

    SUMMARY

    Like Jasper curled up on the loveseat, we often resist when God calls us out of our comfort zones. Let us be thankful that He cares more about our growth than our comfort.

    TAKEAWAY

    Change is inevitable. The rate and amount may vary, but change happens whether we want it or not.

    We don’t grow while we stay hunkered down in our comfortable bubbles. Most of our spiritual growth comes during times of change, often in crisis.

    God cares more about our holiness than our temporary comfort. He is the vinedresser of John 15, pruning us so we bear more fruit, and we can thank Him for caring enough to make us move.

    Be blessed

    Kevin

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  • Love One Another, Even When We Disagree 

    Perhaps the hardest commandment of them all

    Two bowls of potato salad side by side on a white-covered potluck table, one in a glass bowl dusted with paprika and one in a plastic container topped with chopped egg, surrounded by a casserole, a vegetable tray, cornbread, a slow cooker, and stacks of paper plates and napkins.

    The woman in my Aquafit class asked me a simple question: “What religion are you?” I told her I was a Christian. She gave me a puzzled look. “No. I mean, are you like a Baptist, or Anglican, one of those weird ones where people fall on the floor or what?” I should have gone with my usual answer: I’m a Christian in the Baptist tradition. It tends to answer that sort of question better for some people.

    We won’t touch the idea that Christianity isn’t a religion but a relationship today, but she had a point. People often see the church as a diverse group of competing religions, known more for what we are against than what we stand for. We can be seen as harsh, unloving and bigoted. Not a pretty picture and nothing like Jesus looked like.

    Despite our differences and faults, there is only one true Church. That doesn’t seem to stop us from diving over theological, geographic and ethnic/national lines. We argue about key doctrines, minor differences in practice and the color of the walls or carpet. We disagree on music, how the pastor should dress and church government. Should we belong to a denomination, be non-denominational, or start our own denomination? Should we ordain those in ministry, and if so, how and who?

    Which Bible translation is “really” God’s Word? Churches split over the COVID vaccine. I know of a church that burned out pastor after pastor for 40 years because, way back when, two church leaders’ wives both brought potato salad to a potluck.

    Now, there are plenty of legitimate differences, some even worth dividing over, but Jesus never commanded us to be known for the things we differ over or our hatred of certain people groups or sins. Sometimes the church’s actions must cause the Lord incredible heartache.

    A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” John 13:34-35

    For this is the message that you have heard from the beginning, that we should love one another. 1 John 3:11 ESV

    Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins. 1 Peter 4:8 ESV

    We all know the way we are called to act, but our flesh gets in the way, and we become poor ambassadors of Christ. We can’t always agree, nor should we, but we can handle the disagreements in love.

    Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love. Ephesians 4:15 -16 ESV

    We can’t live this way under our own power; we need the Holy Spirit’s help. We need to remember how Christ loves us and forgives us. We need to recall His mercy and grace, even when we have been at our worst.

    We have been given two wonderful places to practice. These are the Sunday morning gathering and our own families. We have plenty of opportunities to both give and receive grace and forgiveness. We also have opportunities to love the unlovable (and sometimes we are the unlovable).

    We are never going to get it right 100% of the time, but we can be forgiven for our mistakes. Let’s remember who we are and are called to be in Christ. Let’s make a conscious effort to start loving one another today. I know I could do better. How about you?

    SUMMARY

    We won’t always agree, but Jesus said the world would know we are His disciples by our love for one another. Let’s ask the Holy Spirit to help us start loving one another today, beginning at church and at home.

    TAKEAWAY

    Jesus never told us to be known for what we differ over or who we oppose. He said all people would know we are His disciples by our love for one another (John 13:35).

    Some differences are legitimate, and some are even worth dividing over, but we can still speak the truth in love and handle our disagreements in a way that builds up the body.

    We can’t love like this in our own strength. We need the Holy Spirit’s help and a fresh memory of Christ’s mercy toward us, and Sunday mornings and our own families are where we get to practice.

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